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Randi Gunther Ph.D.

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Randi Gunther, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and marriage counselor practicing in Southern California. In her 40-year career, she has accumulated over 130,000 face-to-face hours with individuals, couples, and families.

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Recent Posts
8 Signs That an Ex Can't Let Go
Someone who eventually walks out of a relationship is far more likely to be spared an ex-partner’s pain if they address warning signs early on.
The Risks of Committing Too Early

If someone seems like a potential match for you, do you immediately go “all in,” and risk sadness and loss if it doesn’t turn out to be what you thought it would be?

If someone seems like a potential match for you, do you immediately go “all in,” and risk sadness and loss if it doesn’t turn out to be what you thought it would be?

12 Ways Partners Might Manipulate Each Other

As you become aware of your own helpful manipulations, you might be courageous enough to share them with your partner.

As you become aware of your own helpful manipulations, you might be courageous enough to share them with your partner.

How Couples Can Learn to Love Each Other Again

When couples want to renew their love for each other and ask for my guidance, I help them explore how they lost each other so that they will never allow for those behaviors again.

When couples want to renew their love for each other and ask for my guidance, I help them explore how they lost each other so that they will never allow for those behaviors again.

9 Things Everyone Should Understand About Love

Do you know what love needs from you? Do you know how to keep it in your life? I want to give you a better understanding of what love requires for it to stick around.

Do you know what love needs from you? Do you know how to keep it in your life? I want to give you a better understanding of what love requires for it to stick around.

7 Words We Should Ban From Our Relationships

Any couple that wants to build a secure love must erase mean attacks from their verbal usage. Even occasional use will leave lasting negative impressions.

Any couple that wants to build a secure love must erase mean attacks from their verbal usage. Even occasional use will leave lasting negative impressions.

Why Suppressed Emotions Can Erupt in a Crisis

Buried feelings can erupt under pressure, and instead of behaving as one generally would, long-time negative feelings may lead them to lash out instead.

Buried feelings can erupt under pressure, and instead of behaving as one generally would, long-time negative feelings may lead them to lash out instead.